CTICC annual meeting of 1000 Women Trust changed Claudia Roodt’s career path
Claudia Roodt remembers 11th May 2017 with glee and joy – a day she spoke at the 1000 Women 1 Voice annual gala luncheon at the CTICC, a day on which her address about human connection signaled a career shift to human development, and relational therapy.
Roodt is a motivational speaker, relational and trauma therapist and owner of Designed to Connect.
The topic on 11th May 2017 at the CTICC was “What do you do with intention.”
“Our human need is to connect and we do not connect and build relationship intentionally. We let it go and this is how human trafficking is born,” Roodt said.
Roodt said on that day she spoke about human trafficking and warned about how trafficker can pose as surrogate boyfriends, showering unsuspecting victims with gifts and attention before eventually selling them off to other human traffickers.
“We all need human connections, and the ability to build and protect connections are vital to human relationships,” Roodt said.
“What happens when we do not have good attachments or connections. One of the focal points of my own practice is to ask if you had good connections in your own family. Are there intergenerational cycles that causes trauma and can and must be broken,” Roodt asked.
“It takes one person to break the cycle of five generations of disconnect and dysfunction,” Roodt said.
“In my sessions, I teach people how to identify trauma, deal with it and how to find that connections again,” Roodt explained.
“The poor relationships – for example – between your dad and mother can be carried in a child’s stress response. You struggle to connect and feel fragmented. A person might develop to become a people pleaser and does not live authentically or develop good connections with others due to the emotional disconnect they had while growing up.”
Roodt had to learn to establish healthy connections in her own life and heal emotionally and spiritually. She grew up in a dysfunctional family in Citrusdal in which everything revolved around academic feats. If you performed academically, you were ok, if not, you were isolated.
In 1978 while only 11, she initially told her parents she is number one in her grade, and when they were at the prize giving and the truth emerged, her father burst into her room and told her she was an embarrassment to the family. “As far as I am concerned, you don’t exist anymore,” he said.
“As family we lived in relational poverty. I was unseen, unacknowledged and unappreciated,’ Roodt said.
What happens when there is this glaring hole in the upbringing of a child. He or she can escape in wrong relationships in order to feel appreciated and loved, Roodt explained.
Roodt’s own scars were healed after three failed marriages. She met her husband and soul mate, Tiaan Roodt, in December 2015 and the two got married in 2017.
Since 11h May 2017, Roodt has become a trusted associate of 1000 Women Trust, and has played a role in co-developing the trauma training material of the Trust which has touched the lives of tens of thousands of women, children and parents.
Roodt also runs her successful Designed to Connect practice in Kraaifontein.
Currently, she is busy with a certificate program in traumatic stress studies through the trauma research foundation of Bessel van der Kolk International. She is also undertaking an international course to be a Holding Space Coach. Through the Arizona Trauma Institute Roodt is also busy with a certified clinical trauma specialist individual course.
Through Mark Wolynn she is also busy with a course on inherited family trauma. Roodt is also undergoing root cause therapy training through the Center for Healing in Australia.
For more information, Roodt can be reached on 083 5873269 or can be mailed on claudiaroodt@gmail.com.
1000 women Trust is a is a South African women-led organization dedicated to fighting gender-based violence (GBV) and femicide. It empowers women and children through education, economic empowerment, and accessible support systems.
For more information, contact the Trust on (061) 4690479 or email them on info@1000women.co.za.











