Testimony of hope during mental health awareness month: Esmé Julies
CAPE TOWN. - Esmé Julies is providing a bed and a meal to homeless children in Kalkfontein, a safe space for abused women and hope for young people seeking employment.
But her transformation would not have been possible if she did not seek professional help while married to an abusive husband.
“In October 2024, the HSRC’s first national study on GBV revealed that 33.1 % of women aged 18 years and older had experienced physical violence in their lifetime. This translated to an estimated 7310 389 women when generalised to the SA population. I was part of those 33.1 % women,” said Julies.
“I was married to a husband for 16 years. At the infancy stage of our relationship, all went well. But gradually, I found out that my husband had a relationship with another woman. When I confronted him because he was never at home, he became violent.
“He once hit me with a shovel. On another occasion, I suffered a stab wound after he attacked me with a knife,” she said.
“Things changed when I was introduced to the trauma training material of the women-led organization 1000 Women Trust,” Julies said.
“The trauma training course became a catalyst for my healing,” she said.
“The trauma training course equips attendants to know what trauma is, how it manifests and what the body do when one feels traumatized or overwhelmed. It also teaches attendants on how to become a safe space for others who have encountered trauma, to be sympathetic and reflective listeners, and to share skills with the victim of trauma which will equip them to deal effectively with their trauma,” Julies said.
“Sharing my experience with others and doing the trauma training course, enabled me to stand up to my husband’s physical, emotional and financial abuse. I also went to court to fight him and I eventually won back my house in court,” Julies says.
“The leadership of Tina Thiart of 1000 Women Trust was also a factor and through her I became a GBV-ambassador of the (Western Cape) Department of Social Development,” she said.
Julies is a director of the NPO Women rebuilding broken hearts.
She daily provides a safe space for homeless children and to women who are survivors of GBV, said Julies in her role as GBV-Warrior of 1000 Women Trust.
When asked what her advice would be to women who are caught up in abusive relationships during mental health awareness month, Julies said: “Do not remain silent. Share your story with other people. Join a support group.
“Get trauma training, receive some job training and empowerment from business leaders. But don’t suffer in silence and in isolation,” Julies said.
1000 Women Trust works to end gender-based violence (GBV) by empowering women and girls, providing resources and skills, advocating for policy change, raising awareness, and offering direct support through initiatives like GBV Community advice offices, trauma training, and anti-bullying programs.
They collaborate with community organizations and government to mobilize resources and support survivors.
For more information, contact 1000 Women Trust on info@1000women.co.za or phone them on (061) 4690479.









